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WomanSavers.com [05 Jan 2007|01:39pm]

[ mood | disappointed ]

Dear Ass-wipe,

I posted you on http://www.womansavers.com for all the world to see how you cheated on me and hurt me emotionally and physically. I pray that you will never hurt another but I know because you are good looking and charming, another prey will fall trap in your web of lies.

Someday a greater power will judge you but until that time I will let the world know my story.

Forever Scarred

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My Ex! [12 Mar 2006|02:20am]

[ mood | sleepy ]

Hi All! I'm new here and I just wanted to say that my ex-boyfriend is a loser ands only because I've been bitter since he dumped me. I am over him but it still pisses me off that he dumped me. We had no conversation for the first six months of our break-up (we have been broken up for 8 months)now all of a sudden he wants to send me e-mails. I really can't stand him for breaking up with me (because I really loved him) and I haven't really been looking to date other guys. HOWEVER I am tired of being alone and it kills me to think that he is the reason I haven't went out and found another guy or at least given some of the potentials a shot. ~Smoochiez~

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You may find this stupid... [15 Apr 2005|01:49am]

The other day... my fiance mentioned Paris Hilton was sexy. Now this really irked and disappointed me.
I'm sorry, she looks like a bird and has the body of a 12 yearold boy.
She's over-tanned, over blonde, and a complete whore.
She is basically the anti-me.

What REALLY pisses me off is that the day before that we got into a little play arguement. He said I was sexy. And I told him I was only sexy to him bc he loved me. He said no I was just really sexy. It went back and forth and he said that he loved me for my MIND, my body was sexy no matter what.

So basically I am thrown into the pot with THAT.

NOT TO MENTION these DISGUSTINGLY shallow speeched he gives about how "personality is important in a relationship, but I need something good to look at too"
And he even told me she's NOT PRETTY.
ANYWAY this got blown out into a big thing. Bc I (like an idiot) felt the need to tell him I was disappointed in him. Bc he only thinks she's sexy bc she does porn and poses naked. WHICH I have found to be the maturity of a BOY not a MAN. MEN tend to at least consider the whole package when claiming someone is sexy.

SO THEN he says that girls can be sexy for reasons other then looks.
[sarcasm]WHICH OMG SO REFRESHING![/sarcasm]
SO basically if it's female it's sexy...
WELL gee, isn't that nice.
It's the equivelent of me walking up to him and saying "hey, you're a guy"
He goes off on this thing where I'm thinking like a woman. I need to think like a man. (and yet he refuses to see this from my point of view)

ANYWAY. we finish talking. SEVERAL hours later I call him. I was going to say that he needs to look at it from my point of view. All those times he's called me sexy mean NOTHING. BC hey, any spoiled whore out there is considered sexy! Then I was going to apologise bc I realised that I DID over react. (tho I have 3 people to back me up saying it was understandable.) And that no I should not have implied that he was a "boy" not "man" that was wrong.
I KNOW that's the case bc I tried calling later and it took me STRAIGHT to voice mail.

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[12 Apr 2005|04:44pm]

National Day of Silence- Tomorrow, April 13

"People who are silent today believe that laws and attitudes should be inclusive of people of all sexual orientations and gender identities. The day of silence is to draw attention to those who have been silenced by hatred, oppression, and prejudice."

PLEASE participate, I'm sure most of you either or, or know someone who is gay, lesbian, trans-sexual, or bisexual. Even if being silent for the day won't change anything directly, it at least shows those that you support them and accept them.

and those of you who DO decide to participate, you may want to print this out and show it to your teachers that day (in case they call on you, etc.), or to educate those who ask.

Please understand my reasons for not speaking today. I support lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender rights. People who are silent today believe that laws and attitudes should be inclusive of people of all sexual orientations and gender identities. The day of silence is to draw attention to those who have been silenced by hatred, oppression, and prejudice. Think about the voices you are not hearing. What can you do to end the silence?
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[29 Jan 2005|02:22pm]

how many of you guys have ex-boyfriends? probably everyone, right?
i've only had one real ex-boyfriend. he was my first kiss, my first love...my first everything. we broke up in june because i thought i was in love with my best friend, steve. i wrote steve this huge fucking e-mail proclaiming my love for him, and everyone found out because steve told some people.
my ex-boyfriend then hooked up with my "best friend" all summer. he called her in the middle of the night, drunk, and she would go over to make-out with him and let him finger her. she lied to me about everything.
my ex-boyfriend basically hates me now. i "screwed him over," which he'll never get past, and he doesn't think i'm "true to heart and sincere." i can't even begin to tell you how many hours i cried or how much i've apologized to him, and i truly am sorry. i wish i could take everything back, but i can't. i want to be friends again, i want to know him again, and he wants to erase me.
he was so mean in this e-mail. considering that he was supposedly in love with me for eight months, he was really mean.
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i want a boy who won't get wasted all summer after breaking up with me because he is hurt and lonely. that's why cody claims to have hooked with brianne all summer. i want a boy who loves me and won't wake up one morning and stop loving me because i fucked up. i want a boy who is honest. i want him to be tall and to smell good and i want him to hold me the way cody did. don't all girls deserve kindness and respect?
i guess not.
i'm really trying not to hate boys, but it's proving to be the impossible.
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[08 Jan 2005|12:32am]

Join 0h_soboicrzy
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Newbie [31 Dec 2004|12:52pm]

[ mood | excited ]

I'm slowly becoming addicted to joining communities..lol.

My names Dan..
Yea, I'm a boy, but no worries. I hate mean, jerky, ignorant, degrading, stupid, um meanie boys. yea thats right.
I'm a nice guy, I think..

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[20 Dec 2004|07:17pm]


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[20 Dec 2004|11:49am]

[ mood | creative ]

1. Watch the sunset together
2. Back rubs/messages
3. French kiss
4. Hold them with hands inside the back of their shirt
5. Whisper to each other
6. Cook for each other
7. French kiss in the rain
8. Dress each other
9. Undress each other
10. Kiss every part of their body
11. Hold hands often
12. Sleep together (actually sleep together, not sex)
13. Sit and talk in just underwear
14. Buy surprise gifts for each other
15. Roses, daisies, or wild flowers
16. Find a nice secluded place to lie and watch the stars
17. Kiss them every chance you get
18. Don't wear underwear and let them find out
19. Lightly kiss their collarbone and jawbone just below their ear, then whisper "I love you."
20. Write poetry for each other
21. Kiss/smell their hair
22. Hugs are the universal medicine
23. Say "I love you" only when you mean it, and make sure they know you mean it
24. Tell her she's the only girl you ever want, and don't lie
25. Spend every second possible together
26. Tell her she never has to do anything she doesn't want to do, and mean it
27. Look into each other's eyes often
28. Very lightly push up their chin, look into their eyes, tell them you love them, and kiss them
29. Talk to each other using only your eyes, body language, and by humming different pitches
30. When in public, only flirt with each other
31. Walk behind them and put your hands in their front pockets
32. Put love notes in their pockets when they don't know it
33. Buy an inexpensive ring, place it on their finger, and say "I do."
34. Sing to each other
35. Read to each other
36. PDA's
37. Take advantage of any time alone together to cuddle
38. Draw a picture together
39. Let them sit on your lap
40. Lips were made for kissing. So were eyes, cheeks, collarbones, hands, and ears.
41. Kiss her on her stomach with an oceanic kiss (draw in a short breath or air just before the kiss)
42. Hold them around their hips/sides
43. Hold her hand, stare into her eyes, kiss her hand, and place it over your heart
44. Unless you can hear their heart beating, then you aren't close enough
45. Dance together
46. Cherish the picture you see when she falls asleep in your arms
47. Carry her when you have to walk through mud, or she's tired, cold, or even if she asks
48. Do cute things like write "I love you" on a piece of paper so they have to hold it up to a mirror to read it
49. Make excuses to call them often
50. Even if you are extremely busy doing something and they are away and know you are busy, go out of your way to call and say "I love you" or something else to show them you do
51. Call them from your vacation spot and tell them you miss them and were thinking about them, and be sure to mean it
52. Remember your dreams, and share them with each other
53. Ride your bike a healthy distance to see them if even just for a few hours, even if you have a car
54. After you've ridden/driven home, call them
55. Tell each other your most sacred secrets/fears
56. Be Prince Charming to her parents, and mean it
57. Act out a mutual non-sexual fantasy together
58. Brush her hair out of her face for her
59. Stay up all night and think of 101 ways to be sweet to them
60. Talk to her friends as well as her when you are all together
61. Go to church/worship/pray together, even if you aren't religious
62. Take her to see a movie and remember all the parts she liked
63. Cuddle together under a full moon on a clear night
64. Learn from each other and never make the same mistakes twice
65. Everyone deserves a second chance
66. Describe the joy that you genuinely feel just to be with him/her
67. Make obvious sacrifices for each other
68. Love each other together, don't just be together
69. You figure it out. (Haha.)
70. Write a story about how you met and fell in love with them, and give it to them
71. Let there never be a second during the day you aren't thinking about them, and make sure they know it
72. Pray about them every night before going to bed
73. Love yourself before you love anyone else
74. Learn to say sweet things in foreign languages
75. Dedicate songs on the radio to them if you can, even if you know they aren't listing so everyone else can know how you feel
76. Fall asleep on the phone with each other (intentionally)
77. Stand up for them if someone talks trash, whether or not they are present
78. Never forget the kiss goodnight, and always remember to say "sweet dreams"
79. Always try to tell them everything you love about them, and mean it
80. Draw cute little pictures and symbols on the letters you give them
81. Give her something of personal value for her to keep as a reminder of your love for her
82. Never do anything with other members of the opposite sex that you wouldn't do with them there with you
83. Find a particular tree in the part to call your own, and go there often to talk about your day
84. Make sure to put their wishes before your own
85. Always remember the anniversary and plan something special for the occasion; forgive and forget if they forget the anniversary
86. Board games on rainy days
87. Always say "bless you" or "God bless you" when she sneezes
88. Share with your friends how much you love them, and be truthful
89. Open your heart to them as much as or more than they do to you
90. Always say good, truthful things to them to cheer them up when they need it
91. Never talk about problems with ex's
92. Go on a walk and pick flowers for her (with or without her)
93. Be true to yourself- be true to each other, and always be true
94. Spend time thinking of creative dates
95. Go on one of those creative dates
96. To settle an argument, think of what is right, not who is right
97. Never say anything you know will make them jealous
98. Tell her parents how much you love her
99. Find a particular star in the night sky to call your own. When you know you can't be together, set a time for both of you to look at the same star and think of each other.
100. Fill your heart with love, and fill theirs with yours
101. Never wait for them to say "I love you" first, and always say it in return with meaning.

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[15 Dec 2004|02:00am]

Hello all,
I thought I'd finally contribute to this LJ! You see, someone recently wrote me asking how they could get over someone they adored, but who didn't adore them. I thought it would be a good idea to post the response, since most of us are going through something similar. If you want to see the letter and the whole response, you can just go to my LJ.

"First of all, you might not be ready to move on. There's something sweet and gratifying about the pain of unrequited love. No matter how self-destructive, basically everything we do (and continue to do despite consequences) brings us some sort of pleasure--that's why we do it! From procrastination to pining, we hurt ourselves but deep down it feels oh so good. Or it just benefits us. Maybe you're not ready to let go now because you get a reward each time your heart swells with longing. That last sentence should be in a Fabio-covered book, but whatever. It's fun to long! Sure it's masochistic, but I suppose it "reminds us that we are alive."

Funny story, one night I was literally in pain (I said it would be funny) from worry over a certain person. At times I would forget about my problem and the pain would go away. When I realized that I was no longer hurting, I would actually try to COME UP with things that would make me worried. It was a strange, semi-voluntary response to emotional peace. I didn't feel right until I was back in pain. It felt right. It even felt productive.
But aside from that, there are a few things you need to remember. If you internalize these points, constantly reminding yourself of them, you will feel better.

1) You don't need him. Sounds obvious, right? But there's probably a part of you that thinks that he is the missing part that will fix or improve your life. It gives one a sense of belonging and importance to think that the Key to their life is floating out there in the universe. It sounds cosmic and hot and stuff. But he ain't the Key.

2) You may think you need him, but what you really long for is the fantasy created by your own imagination. The "Republican Loser" only served as a model for the person you were attracted to and needed. The R.L. will only disappoint you because he is not your fantasy come true. Like I said, he ain't the Key.

3) It is okay to let go. Giving up on R.L. is not a testament to how much you suck or how your life is a mess. You aren't losing any part of yourself or the great potential of your life by losing the memory of him. You never actually made a promise to stick with him forever, so you don't have to! And even if you did make vows before God or whomever, it's still within your power to leave. I hope #3 makes some sense.

4) You can't quit cold turkey. It takes time. You are going to relapse. I repeat, you will relapse. You are going to fall back in love (and out of love) again and again. "Time heals all wounds" is the truest fuckin' thing I've ever heard. Yes, there will be memories and maybe regret, but look how well you function despite the heartbreaks of the past. Sure you think about this guy and that one, but you're not crying on the floor over them anymore.

5) Last, but not least: IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT! I don't care how tempting it is to think it, (maybe it adds to the sweet sorrow), but there is NOTHING wrong with you. Okay, maybe there are things wrong with you, lol, but they are not the reason why he wasn't interested in you. This is the hardest part to remember, and I don't know how to force it into your head and make it stay there.

Although you are totally deserving of love and attention, sometimes it just doesn't come. There isn't really an explanation for it. Love is inherently unfair, stupid, and unruly. For example: There's a guy I know whom I totally *should* like, but I just don't. I don't know why, he's quite a catch, but he just didn't come into my life at the right time, or something--I dunno. I can't explain it. Is there something wrong with him? Not at all! There's something very RIGHT with him, but my mind just didn't latch on to the idea. Go figure.

Okay, this is getting really long, but my final bit of advice is EXPRESS YOURSELF. This is how I'm getting over someone and it's doing freakin' wonders for me. I have made more progress in the last week than I would have made in months. It was scary, don't get me wrong, but I couldn't keep all this shit to myself any longer.

Feel better! I know you can do it!!"
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i want food!!! [07 Dec 2004|05:11pm]

[ mood | cold ]

right now i have nothing bad to say about guys, because i kinda figured things out with me and matt.

but a few weeks ago my "friend" got mad at me for not being all over my b/f 24/7. and lately she has been talking to me. and it seems as if she isn't mad at me anymore, should i be mad at her for being mad at something so stupid?

Later masterbater

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holding hands [23 Nov 2004|08:57am]

[ mood | aggravated ]

ok so last night, after the movie. my boyfriend and i were walking to the car and when we walked by people he knows(i don't know them)he stopped holding my hand. this is not the 1st time he's done this. is it just me or is that wrong?

btw i'm 16 he's 20

please comment with advice.

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My boyfriend [22 Nov 2004|08:49pm]

Let me be the first to actually write something about a guy:
Matt is my boyfriend and everthing has been going okay and then here comes one of my friends and she becomes his "best" friend and they talk on the phone and she even goes ove to his house in the morning to get high. And before she even met him, she was all against drugs. She even tried to make her boyfriend quit, of course he didn't so when she found out that he has been doing it she started doing it with my boyfriend. One day me and her boyfriend got to talking about it and he said that she would hang up with him to talk to Matt. Now doesn't that sound suspicious?

I know this isn't really talking bad about guys but its more than what you guys have.
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Where is everyone? [16 Jul 2004|03:49pm]
[ mood | curious ]

You're club sounds perfect but how come there is no one here?

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First Post [12 Jul 2004|05:50pm]

[ mood | accomplished ]

Can't say that I have a rant right now, I just kind of need to test this.

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